Testimonials

Compassion Toronto

Ruth Luginbuehl


  Trees have a special magic for me, and with that they have become very important symbols in my life. This particular tree I created keeping the following question in mind: What is Compassion Cultivation for me, and how did the training change my life? When I took the CCT course I was practicing Mindfulness Meditation for already about 5 years. The meditation practice helped me to heal and ground myself, in analogy to the roots anchoring and nourishing a tree (the collaged tea leaves stand for the nourishment, the glass beads for the water.) The trunk of the tree symbolizes the more integral me after the healing. At that point in time, I was looking for more meaningful growth, more ways to take my practice off the cushion, and share it by connecting with others. CCT offered me this and much more, represented in the crown of the tree, reaching out and sharing by connecting. The Self-compassion part helped me to accept not only my shortcomings, but also my old scars, without judging or criticizing (dead branches of the tree, an integral part of the overall appearance), and to grow resilience. CCT helped to discover new sources and unfold more skills. Like the tree investing the nourishment into the crown, I learned to invest and apply all the nurturing and centering qualities from my meditation practice into my daily activities (visualized in the thicker branches, growing into twigs and leaves, eventually bearing some flowers.) Continued CCT practice, guided by Dan and Tsering, encourages me to further open my heart, and discover more aspirations (symbolized by the butterflies, another symbol with deep meaning). I want to thank Dan and Tsering for their enriching influence in my life. Through their generosity and engagement, I found a new path in life. And in every weekly CCT community meditation and refresher, I feel guided further on this path.           

Natalie Thomas

This course and training provided me with insights and practices that went beyond my expectations. Being familiar with the research on compassion interventions, I had some knowledge of the approach when I started the course. However, it was the teaching and modeling by the instructors (Tsering and Dan) that allowed me to learn how to bring these practices into my life in ways that changed how I perceive others and made me think more about the sort of person I want to be. The course is the perfect blend of learning and practice and the environment is warm and supportive to everyone, regardless of our differences. I’m deeply grateful for this experience and training and find that it’s the practice I most want to continue out of all of the different trainings I’ve taken in the past. Thank you!

Natalie Thomas, PhD
Adjunct faculty, Philosophy, University of Guelph
Fellow, Oxford Centre for Animal Ethics
Member, Women for Humane Canada

Michele Chaban

Over decades I have been trained by world leaders in Mindfulness and Mindfulness Meditation. All of them taught me something important that I could integrate into my practice. Perhaps none more than Cultivating Compassion Training (CCT) resonated with my heart. Perhaps it was that Thupten Jinpa was my first teacher as he sat in enobling dignity at the side of His Holiness the Dalai Lama, translating his words. Perhaps it was sitting with the CCT teachers Tsering Tsomo and Dan D'Agostino. Perhaps it was the teaching of heart based intelligence and perception that was a relief from the enskulled brain thinking that has dominated our educational systems. It is difficult to discern because all these things came to play in my training in CCT and my love of this practice. Whatever arose for me as I learned the CCT practice, it is a practice that has "stuck" to me, grounding me, allowing me infinite opportunities to practice this beloved practice that brings me "home" to the world I wish to live in and help cultivate.

Michele Chaban MSW, RSW ( retired) PhD.

Colleen Yamamoto

It is such an honour to be asked to write a small note of reference for Dan and Tsering today. I have come to respect both individuals for their values, the way they conduct their classes, and the high calibre of work that they invest into their lesson plans. 

In class Dan displayed a keen intelligence of the Buddhist theory that he not only was skilled in but was able to bring forward examples from his daily living that demonstrated his willingness to live in the “compassionate way” which is remarkable for a teacher.  

Tsering’s gentle ability to live with compassion by always being present with students in the moment to guide us through understanding the core elements of the teachings which I think was from her unique perspective and perhaps her background. To me, Tsering’s manner was always kind, resilient and understanding of anyone’s situation. 

In combination, these two facilitators/teachers, are a dynamic duo who can develop rapport with all ages, backgrounds, and professions.  It seemed to me that the intent of the course was to ‘dig deep’ into your understanding of the term compassion and bring out a new understanding or learning of this term so that we could define it for our own self which in turn allows us to use it as we interact with the world around us.  This new tool is an opening to improved relationships, or an elevated higher self. 

Dan and Tsering effortlessly accomplish all of this over the course of the time you spend with them.  Dan and Tsering come with a positive attitude, and I highly recommend both them and their course for anyone who is seeking to explore themselves, how to be more compassionate, or gain a higher understanding of working with others in an impactful manner. 

Colleen Yamamoto
Project Coordinator
Essential Skills Media Tools 
Aboriginal Essential Skills Guiding Team

Mireille de Reland

Compassion Cultivation Training - the course title really speaks to what this course is about! After 8 weeks of group classes and experiential learning approaches, I have been able to nurture and strengthen my practice of self-compassion, compassion and common humanity. Being a person that cares for, supports and leads others in my personal and professional life, the course has provided a strong foundation for exploring and understanding my own emotions with self-compassion, as well as how to avoid empathy fatigue/distress. It has also broadened my awareness on how to deal with more challenging relationships and situations in day-to-day life. Tsering and Dan embody their teachings by providing a calm, kind and compassionate learning environment where everyone’s experience is respected.

Mireille de Reland
Program Leader and Consultant, De Reland Consulting Inc.
Mindfulness Facilitator for end-of-life care patients, family caregivers and seniors community programs

Blair Kuntz

In a world in which news is filled with the debilitating effects of climate change, boats filled with refugees fleeing war and violence, and the production of more lethal weaponry designed to kill or maim fellow human and other sentient beings inhabiting the Earth, it is obvious that compassion is a commodity sadly lacking in our globalized world. Compassion Cultivation Training is a welcome antidote to these uncomfortable realities as it teaches us to recognize that everything is connected and that others are not separate from ourselves. 

Compassion Cultivation Training helps students to develop feelings of calm and equanimity both for ourselves and others (even those for whom we find it difficult to feel compassion) as opposed to frantic unexamined habitual responses to adversity and propagates compassion and understanding instead of violence, hostility, jealousy, and greed. These are all qualities that will be necessary for us to cultivate to meet the challenges facing our fragile and increasingly endangered planet.  

Blair Kuntz
University of Toronto Library
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